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Your career didn't happen by chance.
Your relationship
shouldn't either.
Concierge-led matchmaking and relationship intelligence for professionals across the African and Caribbean diaspora.

Concierge-led matchmaking. Vetted members. A 75% minimum compatibility threshold. Welcome to the relationship intelligence and matchmaking platform for professionals who refuse to settle.

About

Ichötà is a concierge-led matchmaking and relationship intelligence service for professionals across the African and Caribbean diaspora. Members are vetted, then paired through psychometric compatibility with a 75% minimum threshold, and a human matchmaker reviews every introduction before it is made. Membership is arranged through the Ichötà app on iPhone and Android.

We don't follow dating trends. We replace them.

Fewer matches. Better ones.

Dating apps turned finding a partner into a numbers game. We're turning it back into a professional's pursuit.

Ichötà is built for professionals in the African and Caribbean diaspora who are done with the swipe economy. We pair psychometric assessment with a human matchmaker, so every introduction has a reason behind it: family values, financial alignment, cultural context.

Backing and recognition

We're proud to be SEIS/EIS approved and backed by the Amazon Innovation Accelerator, as well as the Female Founder Incubator by Bruntwood SciTech & Lifted Ventures, Barclays FRP, and Built to Rise by The Whole Point. We're also honoured to have been named “Tech & Innovation” winners at the Yorkshire Black Business Awards and finalists for “New Business” at the Yorkshire Businesswoman's Awards.

Ichötà app — Your suite view showing a curated member profile
Platform

Most platforms need you single to turn a profit. We'd rather see you taken.

  • Personal Concierge

    You wouldn't navigate your career without an advisor. Your concierge is your strategist: they understand your vision, facilitate introductions, coach you through the nerves, and remain by your side as things unfold. And yes, if the date was a disaster, we want to hear all about it.

  • Relationship Intelligence

    Proximity is just logistics; compatibility is a science. We match on psychometrics, emotional maturity, and availability, weaving in the cultural and religious nuances that actually matter — because your life is far more than a postcode.

  • Uncompromising Vetting

    Trust is non-negotiable. Every member is rigorously vetted before they enter the community.

  • The Diaspora Network

    There are things about your life that someone should understand without a three-hour explanation: family expectations, faith, money, migration, and the tension between where you were raised and where you live now. That is the hyphenated life. We provide a community of people who share your background, not just your postcode.

Autoswipe

Forget endless, mindless swiping.

Our ML-driven assistant learns your behaviour, surfacing a curated stream of profiles that genuinely align with your standards. Every profile pushed to you has a minimum compatibility score of 75%. You remain in the driver's seat; we've simply cleared the road of the clutter.

Member in a thoughtful moment
Partner Merge

Built for your next chapter.

When you find your person, Partner Merge evolves your experience from independent matching to a joint membership.

With mutual approval, your concierge pivots to support your life as a couple — planning dates, curating anniversaries, and securing access to our exclusive couples' events. We aren't just here for the search; we are here for the long term.

Process

Quality requires a velvet rope. Here is how we hold the line.

  1. 01

    Apply

    Download the app and complete the application. It takes fifteen to twenty minutes — we ask for the kind of detail that matters, not padding. Once submitted, pay the £30 fee in-app. It's non-refundable and funds the rigorous vetting that follows.

  2. 02

    Get approved, meet your concierge

    Accepted applicants receive an invitation to select a plan: Signature, Prestige, or Elite. Once you join, you're assigned a concierge, and your full access to the app begins.

  3. 03

    The deep-dive interview

    This conversation is your concierge's blueprint. It shapes every match they send and informs your Platinum Pairing requests. Introductions only leave our desk once they clear a 75% compatibility score, and a human concierge reviews every single one before it reaches you. The system shortlists; a person decides.

  4. 04

    Meet, refine, repeat

    We want to know how every date went — use us to sharpen the next one. Find your person, and Partner Merge keeps your concierge in your corner instead of showing you the door.

FAQ

These are the most common questions. Answered with no spin. Still have one? Reach out.

Ichötà is purposefully designed to serve professionals within the African and Caribbean diaspora, as we deeply understand the cultural nuances of these relationships. This market is our entry niche, and we plan to scale gradually and intentionally to cover other demographics in the coming years. However, our community is inclusive. If you share our values of ambition, intention, and respect, you are welcome here.